Category: Olympics

  • Blog. Oscar Pistorious. 8.12 imagesFew who watched the London Olympics could look away from the shots of Oscar Pistorius, a strong, triumphant athlete.

    There he was running on two carbon fiber blades shaped like scythes. Although he failed to qualify for the 400 metre final, this South African counted it a victory simply to compete on an equal basis with "normal" runners.

    If you followed his story, you know Oscar was born without fibulas, the long bones that run from knee to ankle. That November 22, 1986, his parents, Sheila and Henke Pistorius, as any of us would, wondered what kind of life lay ahead for their newborn.

    Early on they consulted with some of the best doctors in the world. These physicians advised a procedure that left them reeling: Ampute their baby's legs below the knee. Soon.

    Doctors assured them their son would face less difficulty learning to walk and would have better mobility all through life. Surgeons performed the amputation before Oscar's first birthday.

    Six months later technicians fitted the toddler with his first prosthetic legs.

    Never shrinking back

    This remarkable family was crazy for sports. Oscar grew up rejecting physical limitations and trying everything, egged on by his mom.

    He played rugby and water polo and also wrestled. In 2003 a rugby tackle resulted in torn knee ligaments. Doctors advised him to get into sprinting to rehab his leg and his coach quietly began shape Oscar for a running career.

    Through it all, Sheila Pistorius cheered him on. According to her son, she cut him no slack. "She always said the loser isn't the person that gets involved and comes in last, but it's the person that doesn't get involved in the first place."

    Henke and Sheila divorced sometime during Oscar's childhood years, after which the three siblings saw little oftheir father. .

    Sheila Pistorius died when Oscar was fifteen. In an interview with News24.com, he said his  mother "left an indelible mark on me."

    What keeps him going

    It's heady stuff for any athlete to compete in the Olympic, but Oscar never forgets the source of his strength. He discussed that with Nico Bougas (Assist News Service (ANS) dated June 9, 2012.)

    Oscar grew up in a Christian home and accepted Christ as His Savior “more or less before I could remember. God is the most important person in the world to me. If I’m on the right patch spiritually, it helps with everything else.”

    Asked why he needs Christ in his life, he says: “Because He is the reason for my success and the one that takes me from strength to strength. Christ makes all the difference. He aids me in my struggles and makes my glories that much greater.”

    The ultimate prize

    Like many athletes, Oscar has a tattoo, which he got one sleepless night in New York City. It’s a verse from Corinthians: “I do not run like a man running aimlessly.’’

    To be specific, the verse is 1 Corinthians 9:26. If we add verse 25, we understand what Oscar Pistorius means:

    Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that  will not last; but we do it to get a crown that will last forever. Therefore I do not run like a man running aimlessly . . .

    The crown stands for salvation through faith in Jesus Christ, which brings us eternal life in heaven.

    Here's to living with purpose–with or without a tattoo. 

    Love,

    Lenore

  • Why not an Olympics ceremony where parents get medals, too?

    Think about it. Olympic athletes start out as kids with dreams. They get immersed in intensive training long before they can drive. Someone has to get them from home to the practice facility.

    Guess who.

    Images. Blog. Mic. Deb. Phelps. 7.12Mom watches and cheers from the bleachers or dozes in her car. Every day she packs lunches, hands out Gatorade and energy bars and launders smelly towels and athletic duds. Her ready supply of hugs, encouragement and consolation never runs dry.

    Take Debbie Phelps, for example. The mother of Michael Phelps, winner of eight gold medals, got him into swimming when he was age seven. Every day she chauffeured him and his two older sisters, also Olympics hopefuls, back and forth to the practice facility. Holidays? Vacations? Uh-uh.

    Finding this kind of focus can be a godsend

    Both mother and son have talked freely about Michael's early diagnosis of ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Diagnosis.) She describes the young Michael as "a burst of energy . . . a local irritant."

    Swimming became his release. Michael took to swimming naturally, perhaps because he turned out to have a mind and body just right for the sport. Debbie, a divorced mom, says she simply kept him pointed in the right direction.

    (Any parent of an ADHD child would understand how much courage and determination that required.)

    Debbie taught school for thirty years and is the principal of a Baltimore middle school. In recent years she became something of a celebrity in her own right. She believes every child needs an outlet. It doesn't matter whether it's sports or science, music or art, or a hands-on skill of some sort. Finding the activity that fits–and fills–is key.

    When Tom Brokaw interviewed Debbie Phelps in 2008 she offered three principles of parenting.

    1. Love your kids.
    2. Steer them in the right direction.
    3. Give them right values.

    What's missing here?

    I agree with Debbie Phelps' advice, but I think she omitted what enables a parent to carry out those three principles: faith in God.

    • Where can we find enough love to carry on despite frustrations and difficultes?

    Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God.     –1 John 4:17

    • With distractions and competing experts on all sides, how can we know which direction is "right?"

    Your word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.     –Psalm 119:105

    • How can we discern which values are "right?"

    Jesus said, "If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free."     -John 8:31

    People have turned to the Bible for centuries, looking for answers. And finding them.

    Better than gold medals

    Loving through all the ups and downs takes all we've got and then some. Eventually most faithful moms and dads earn something much more satisfying than any medal. We can't hold it in our hands or display it in a trophy case, but it's real.

    The warm glow it brings starts the first time we look at our adult children and realize we not only love them, we like  them.

    Trust me, that's a lasting reward worth all the love and effort you give.

    Love,

    Lenore