Category: Time

  • Whether we greet the morning with a grin or a groan, every dawn propels us into the unknown

    All we know for sure is what yesterday looked like. But this day? Who knows?

    Some of us consider our life to be good, others not so much. Perhaps our circumstances seemed right at the start and then our life took a turn we never imagined. Or wanted.

    Does that make us powerless? 

    I say No. Why would I/how could I say that?

    Because we still choose how we will handle what comes. Will we live with fear? Or with calm? Without fail, we get to decide. 

    I didn’t always understand that. Then I ran across a Dale Carnegie quote that made me think. After reading it once, I read it again, a couple of times. Aloud. Slowly.

    “Two men looked out from prison bars, One saw the mud, the other saw stars.”

    For whatever reason, those words made me squirm. I heard that voice in my mind asking, What about me? What did choose to see when I looked at my life?

    How often did I cheat myself of seeing the stars?

    Do our attitudes color our perception?

    Always, we are individuals, not peas in a pod with identical lives. Some people live in the middle of a hard situation that offers little or no hope of getting better, yet they remain cheerful, even calm. How?

    Like the prisoner who chose to look up at the stars, where we fix our attention greatly affects how we see our lives. How we think affects the people around us, too. That old saying, “If Mama ain’t happy ain’t nobody happy” also applies to Papa. Our moods trickle down to our children and to everyone in our lives.

    In this age of information overload we can’t escape hearing news reports and warnings, morning, noon and night. Often we struggle to keep fear from getting the upper hand.

    Even when life is good. Even when we believe in God.

    Everyone’s life story includes ups and downs

    Times when nothing seemed to work out right. Times we felt alone and comfortless. Even strong Christians can feel weak and empty now and then.

    Yet through it all we believe God has not walked away from us and washed his hands of us.  

    Clearly, we are not the first to experience these emotions. Otherwise, why would the Bible include so much hope and reassurance? For example, check Isaiah 43:1-5; Psalm 139, especially verses 1-18; or John 14:27. 

    It helps to know where to find favorite Bible verses 

    Have you ever remembered part of a Bible verse, but not where to find it? Technology comes in handy here, even for us non-techies.

    Just enter the words you recall into any general search engine on your computer or smart phone. Almost instantly the complete verse and where to find it will appear on the screen. Sometimes the verse will pop up in several Bible translations. It’s easy to scroll through until you locate the one that matches what you’re trying to recall.

    Note: Even when one translation of the Bible varies from another, the core meaning of the text does not change. That traces back to the original texts, which all were written in Latin (Old Testament) or Greek (New Testament). 

    Feel free to mark up your printed Bible

    Long ago I started keeping track of verses by underlining them or marking them in some way. I started also keeping notes where to find them on the blank pages at the back of my Bible. My system was and is rather haphazard, but it works for me.

    Here are two verses I underlined years ago:   

    I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live and that you may love the LORD your God, listen to his voice and hold fast to him. For the LORD is your life …                                                                           –Deuteronomy 30:19-20

    The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.                                                                                                                           –Lamentations 3:22-23

    Never ceases. Never come to an end. New every morning. 

    Armed with reassurances like these you and I can prance into the unknown, unafraid. (And we will prance, won’t we?)

    Wishing you joy and peace,

    Lenore 

  • Am I the only one who thinks this week of the year feels a bit unreal?

    I always have. It's not Christmas anymore–and it's not Dreamstime_xs_141317 (480x319)
    quite time for the New Year, either. Family gatherings are over and all the special events are past. After-Christmas sales beckon, of course, but even champion shoppers eventually tire of the sport. Or run out of money. 

    Then what?

    I unearthed an old piece I've loved for years in which an unknown writer offers suggestions that always keep me thinking. The original title was, "This Christmas …" but I think these timeless words fit any season.   

    HOW TO LIVE IN THE YEAR AHEAD

    • Mend a quarrel.
    • Seek out a forgotten friend.    
    • Dismiss suspicion and replace it with trust.     
    • Write a love letter.
    • Share some treasure.
    • Give a soft answer.
    • Encourage youth.
    • Manifest your loyalty in word and deed.
    • Keep a promise.
    • Find the time.
    • Forego a grudge.   
    • Forgive an enemy.
    • Listen.
    • Apologize if you were wrong.
    • Try to understand.
    • Scorn envy.
    • Examine your demands on others.
    • Think first of someone else.
    • Appreciate.
    • Be kind; be gentle.
    • Laugh a little.
    • Laugh a little more.
    • Deserve confidence.
    • Fight malice.
    • Decry complacency.
    • Express your gratitude.
    • Go to church.
    • Welcome a stranger.
    • Gladden the heart of a child.
    • Take pleasure in the beauty and wonder of the earth.
    • Speak your love.
    • Speak it again.
    • Speak it still once again.

    Those last three lines say it all, don't they? 

    Isn't that why we love the Christmas season? The gifts we gave, the Christmas cards we sent and received speak of L-O-V-E.  So do those notes and Emails to (or from) people we care about.

    It doesn't matter how we connect. Telephone calls can charge us up because we hear the caller's voice. Just hearing dear voices can keep us smiling for a long time.

    So why wait until next year to reach out to them again? 

    Every Christmas the world around us feels more loving. That's fitting because  Christmas is all about love, as the blazing star over that humble manger reminds us.

    The Christ child, God come to earth, is the ultimate proof that what we read in 1 Corinthians 13 is true: Love never fails. God's love never fails.  

    Now there's a glow that lasts, through all time, through every week of every year.

    As for what do we do with this week? Or any week?

    Let's not waste a minute. Let's live!   

    Blessings to you,    

    Lenore

       

  • Once in awhile we all need a word to lift our hearts. Maybe we get stuck in the past…all the times we coulda', shoulda', woulda', but didn't. Maybe we feel overwhelmed with the present. And then there's the future, full of "what ifs?"

    Take heart. Others have been here before us–and lived through it. Sometimes it's good to hear from them…

     

    The Good Old Days were neither better nor worse than the ones we're living through right now.  

    Artie Shaw

    One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magic rose garden over the horizon instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today.      –Dale Carnegie

     

    Two men looked out through prison bars, One saw mud, the other saw stars.

     

    When times are good, be happy; but when times are bad, consider:

    God has made the one as well as the other.   

      

    Ecclesiastes 7:14

     

    God has been so good to me! He never left me alone for a minute. 

    –My grandmother at age 99

     

    Jesus, please teach me to appreciate what I have

    before time forces me to appreciate what I had.

    –Susan L. Lenzkes

     

    This is the day that the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.  

    –Psalm 118:24

     

    Here's to making this day–and every day–a good day!

    Blessings,

    Lenore

     

  • We've all seen the signs that read "carpe diem," or "seize the day."

    Often it refers to not letting an opportunity slip by. Nike said the samBlog. calendar page. 5.09e thing differently in their famous slogan, "Just do it!"

    We all know what road good intentions pave, don't we? Days scamper by while we're not looking. Years pass and we wonder where they went.

    Lately I've had new reminders that life can end suddenly, as it has for people we've known. So I'm newly aware that I want to make each day count.

    I ran across a quote from Francis Gray that expresses this truth well.

    Look well to this day.

    Yesterday is but a dream and tomorrow is only a vision.

    But today well-lived makes every yesterday a dream of happiness

    and every tomorrow a vision of hope.

    Look well, therefore, to this day. 

    So here's the word for today, for you and for me, whatever our situation: Let's live today as if it's the only day we have…because it is.

    Or to quote the psalmist,

    This is the day the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it. 

                                                                                                  —Psalm 118:24

    So let's live fully and rejoice–today and every day!

    Lenore

    Your comments welcomed!

     

  •     We're about to enter the New Year … 2009! A period of time as unknown to us as if we were following a mountain path into thick fog. We only think we know what lies ahead. 

       I love some things about the arrival of another New Year, like putting uBlog. new-years-2p new calendars. Who could miss the symbolism of "off with the old, on with the new?"

        Whatever 2008 was … or wasn't … it lies behind us. Ahead lie 365 uncommitted days. Freedom! Freedom, that is, until I start writing in those unavoidables of life, the meetings and appointments already scheduled … and there will be more. That task makes me feel organized, but also weighed down as I watch those unsullied days fill up. Knowing I've chosen most of those commitments helps, but hey, they nail down my time. I'm one of those people who likes keeping her options open, because who knows what possibilities may arise?

        But then I get a grip. I wouldn't trade places with anyone. Many of those notations remind me that I'm needed, or I make a difference, or simply that I matter in someone else's life. There's nothing that brings more deep-down joy.

        At any point, you and I have this day, this moment. That's scary, but also comforting. We don't have to deal with 365 days, only the one we're living in. Still, beginning a new year feels like starting a journey, not quite sure where one will end up. None of can foretell what 2009 will bring.

        For years I had a piece of writing framed on my office wall, and I love it still. 

                                                   "The Gate of the Year"

        And I said to the man who stood at the gate of the year:  "Give me a light, that I may tread safely into the unknown!"                                    

        And he replied:   "Go out into the darkness and put your hand into the Hand of God.  That shall be to you better than light and safer than a known way."    

                                                                                            –M. Louise Haskins 

         I can't say it better than that. So let's step off into the unknown with gusto! As long as we hold tight to the Father's hand, we'll be safe.

        May God watch over you and yours every day of the New Year!

        Lenore

        Your comments welcomed!

                                            

  •      Fall is in the air, even here in northern California. Mornings come with a chill, even though a few hours later everyone peels off layers. I, for one, am not ready for long pants and sleeves, for jackets and real shoes.

        No matter. Soon it will be October, and tomorrow we'll be hanging Christmas wreaths.

        Isn't that just like life? Days and months gallop by while we're not looking. Then we notice … the toddler is a high school freshman. That letter we never got around to writing? Too late now.

        Sorry if I sound like a nag, but I'm nagging myself. You see, I'm one of those "busy" people, and I love it. Who wants to sit around wondering what to do with oneself? But once in awhile I realize with fresh clarity how easy it is to miss what matters most. 

        So here's the word for today, a gentle reminder for us all. Let's pay attention to the day we're living and revel in it. Let's look around at the people in our lives and ponder what they mean to us. Let's open our eyes and really see.

        No matter who we are, our lives consist of the sum total of those small moments. Each one counts. Sometimes we're captivated by the rich and famous in the media, but they really don't affect any of our lives. Come to think of it, that's a relief. Now we don't have to invest so much energy in trying to be "memorable." We already are.

        Let's savor the joy … while it's here.

        Lenore

        What do you think? Your comments welcomed!